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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Massachusetts Attorney General

Massachusetts warns about matches who say they live abroad, avoid video calls, push you to WhatsApp or Telegram, or ask for crypto or gift cards. File a complaint at mass.gov/how-to/file-a-consumer-complaint, or call the AG's office on (617) 727-2200.

Source: Mass.gov: Loves you not? Don't fall head over heels for romance scams

Tell the FBI's IC3 if you sent money

If you sent money or details to someone you met online, file a complaint at ic3.gov and call your bank. Be wary of anyone whose plans to meet keep falling through.

Source: FBI: Be wary of online romance scams

Report scams to the FTC

Report any romance scam at ReportFraud.ftc.gov, whether or not you lost money, or call 1-877-FTC-HELP. The FTC shares reports with law enforcement.

Source: FTC: New fraud reporting platform, ReportFraud.ftc.gov

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to spot a catfish. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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